Jan 03 2008
What hit me? Soulmate? Synchronicity? Signs?
I won’t tell my whole detailed biography, because no one cares and it’s irrelevant anyway, but some strange coincidences that continuously revolve around the same person, have seriously made me wonder about the subject. I did some digging, and found a lot of articles that basically copied or paraphrased each other, and simply lacked substance.
Most of my questions are left unanswered at this point, but I would like to find out more about what it is exactly that triggers those “coincidences” or “synchronicities” as some people call them. And more importantly: are they really that meaningful, or are we just making a big deal out of nothing?
If I analyze all the past coincidences I’ve had, I could rationally eliminate a bunch of them and just call them luck. Like the big billboard that was put up right next to my apartment a few years ago, it had his last name tagged right in the middle, followed with “it’s all you need!”. Of course I couldn’t avoid looking at it every day as I came back home, it was right there in front of me. But if I told you his last name is one of the most common names in the country, you’d quickly throw it out the window. And so will I. Because easy coincidences are not that hard to find if you look for them.
However, although I haven’t seen him in years, things have gotten a bit more disturbing lately. It started about 2 months ago. The one that shocked me the most happened while I was watching a new series on TV. The main character reminded me of him; the resemblance was uncanny. Right before the first episode ended, a child looked up at him and asked him when he was born. He looked at the child and told him his birth-date … I think my heart skipped a beat! The day, month, and year, were EXACTLY the same. I was stunned. And come to think of it, I find myself a bit creepy for actually remembering his birthday after so many years. Hah! But back to the series: I kept asking myself, what were the chances of this ever happening? I mean, really. I’m sure the chances were pretty damn low. (edit: ok, I calculated and it’s basically one chance out of roughly 131400 different combination possibilities).
Another one happened yesterday; the car I was in happened to pass right in front of the place where he works … Not that big of a deal. Except that right that second, the radio started playing the last song I had heard him sing. Again, I was speechless. Those coincidences were starting to get far trickier than the easy ones I had seen before.
So now what? Let’s assume they’re some kind of signs from whoever/whatever/wherever. All clearly pointing to this one person in a way I could not possibly avoid it, yet subtle and private enough for no one else around to notice. I haven’t seen him in years though. So why does life keep rubbing it in my face?
Since the level of freakishness of all those synchronicities got me thinking on a more spiritual level (and I really tried to stay as clear headed as possible), I started looking for more spiritual answers. As I read my way through several pages, I systematically bumped into the subject of soul-mates. Soulmates are such a vast topic though, I’m not sure I even want to go there. One thing is certain though: unless this is some kind of big cosmic joke, I keep being hit in the head by massive arrows pointing right at him. And if there is a purpose or point behind all this, I guess I would logically have to react to them … and the only obvious reaction would be to get back in touch with him, I suppose.
But how crazy is that? Someone I haven’t spoken to in years. Hello awkward. Although at this point I’m starting to be really curious as to what would happen if I actually did initiate contact. Would the coincidences stop? Would there be a lesson to learn down the road? What’s the point of it all?
I’m still searching …
- Read the outcome here (as well as everything that happened in between).
(added November 27th 2008)
Funny how synchronicity works… I was dealing with a similiar situation recently and I google “synchronicity and soulmate” and here’s your blog…
i’m looking for answers too or maybe i’m wasting mindless energy…
Here’s my story … lots of synchronicity…
I broke up with my ex on new years eve/day (sad but necessary)….
In the beginning, we would meet at the same time , at the same place (that happened a couple of times); sometimes we would call each other at the same time and we wouldn’t get through because we were sent to each other’s voicemail… when we do call each other , more often than not, she was on my mind or vice versa right when she called. When we were breaking up, we heard the right musics on the radio together that matched our situation, how she fucked me in my head, and Sarah Mcclaulins I’ll remember you ! lol… and she received wise sayings from her yoga teacher through email about “suffering” right after we broke up… What to make of these? Random events or special hints?
Or just the law of attraction at work?
In the end, the physical world and free will set in, I had to let her loose and we mutually agreed that it’s better to stop seeing each other because of our differences… and I am left wondering if there’s such thing as soul mates after all those synchronistic events? and what about fate? There’s an ounce of thinking, oh what happened if she could be “the” one?
Or is it not worth spending time thinking about? lol damn it!
Here’s a link that might shed some light on this topic…
http://www.circlesoflight.com/relate/relate21.shtml
PS, Go with your guts, call him! He may be thinking of you at the same time!
Vincent
Hey Vincent! Thanks for that link; it’s definitely an interesting perspective. It’s also amazing how many people are looking into this subject.
Funny… I’ve had so many weird coincidences and feelings too in the last year and a half, and I also hadn’t seen this person . We worked together but toward the end had a horrible tension that made it hard to be around each other. I finally decided to contact her but either she doesn’t feel the same way or it’s not the right time. I’m glad that I made the effort though because now I don’t “stalk” her at all and just trust that if it’s meant to be it will be. I came across these soulmate stories a few minutes ago and they’re very fascinating.
Best of luck….
http://www.nderf.org/Soulmates.htm
wow, hopeful….I just looked at that website and my soulmate’s name popped up onto the page three times! his name has been popping up everywhere lately….and a bunch of other synchronicities surrounding him
^^ lol that’s funny
Ah, I’ve been reading so much on the subject since I’ve made this post. I will probably write a thorough follow-up pretty soon. It’s a fascinating topic.
I don’t know what to believe is there is such a thing as a soul-mate. Well I do believe in sycnhronocity…….
I believe I may have found a soul-mate but the funny thing is nothing ever happened. She is now married lives in exactly the same area within 5 minutes walking distance.
But this is where it really seems uncanny the person she ended up with lives opposite a junior school & in another part of the area I live opposite a junior school as well. It took me so long to figure this out & funnily I always seem to running into her one way or another……
It just seems so far-fetched but uncanny at the same time. I really don’t know what to make of it? Maybe she is the teacher and I am the student, who knows?
Karrals, from the perspective of one who was not a believer until some pretty darn weird coincidences, I think you should look up this guy.
A few months ago, I started to have these coincidences around this one guy I hadn’t seen in years, and so got in touch with him, only to find the attraction was mutual but he was not a free agent. When I had to move cities for work, I resolved to forget him, but bumped into him by total accident the night before I left town (a city of several million). When he found out I was leaving, he told me he was in the process of breaking off his relationship and had a trip scheduled to where I was moving. He arrives soon and I am quite nervous.
By the way, although I really like him, I am not 100% convinced he is my soulmate, as it could be that he is just someone that is very important to me for other reasons. Getting in touch with him actually caused me to change my life in a meaningful way. I found out from him that I also influenced him to change his life for the better…
Good luck – I identified so much with the feelings you expressed!!
Hi Frannie, I think yours has got to be the best comment so far!
Well, I guess because we can relate lol
Very interesting how things turned out for you! I’d be curious to see what happens next.
I’m just like you; I’m pretty careful about the whole soulmate thing, because I think it’s easy to get carried away by feelings and then miss the entire point all together. Right now I’m in this “wait and see” stage, as are you, I’m sure.
I do believe we meet people for a reason though, so maybe there is something there? Who knows! In any case, I’m pretty sure this story isn’t over yet. Especially as those coincidences have continued since my original post, and in a less and less subtle way. I will probably make a follow-up post in a few weeks.
Anyway, thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment
I definitely appreciate it, and I always enjoy reading other people’s stories!
wow freaky! i’ve been having that a lot lately too, its really weird it freaks me out. Like a spider recently came into my house so i named the spider…a month after that i met this guy he told me his name and i freaked out because i named the spider that i also found out the thing he’s afraid of is spiders haha. We both speak the same european language, i mean theres like so many languages out there…we even fidget the same way i can’t stop shaking my legs.
We believe in the same things, we’ve also been single for exactly 3 years now. ahhhh its like all signs are pointing to this guy. i even had a dream on may 6th of what he was going to say i was pointing to a calender on the 9th and when it hit may 9th he said the thing in my dream…so yeah i seriously think there are such things as soulmates i mean why would all of these weird things happen to us?
it means something like god is trying to tell us hey, i can’t keep a secret anymore heres your soulmate the guy you’re supposed to be with or something.
its just wayyy to coincedental alittle too freaky…
but you should contact him all these weird events are taking place.
go for it!
I wish you would call “Just to say hello and see how you’ve been”. You have nothing to lose and possibly something to gain. People contact each other after so many years all the time. It’s a good thing. A nice thing. If nothing else, maybe you’re supposed to learn something from it and share it with all of us who seem to be in the same boat (with one paddle). LOL What made you write about this anyway? Your writing sounds exactly like me too…The psychiatric help, the hit on the head, the song. I’m kind of relieved that I came across this site after 3 days of looking for an answer. It makes me feel a little less insane.
I’ve been getting more and more freaked out as each day passes because the coincidences have become more frequent. I’m listening to the radio right now and COINCIDENTALLY!!! the one and only song that would make me think of him just came on!!! This is insane! It just keeps happening.
Your signs are much stronger than mine. The difference between you and I is that he wasn’t that long ago, I did call and never heard back from him. So…I’m trying to forget and move on BUT for some reason that only the universe knows, I am forced to be reminded of him daily in many ways. I wasn’t in love or hung up or heartbroken over the man. I did what I thought I was supposed to do and got nowhere. Now my only oar is broken, I’m stuck sitting in the boat hoping wind, a stranger floating by or something will lead me in the right direction. I don’t know what the heck I’m supposed to do or why it keeps happening. I don’t want the constant signs because I don’t know what to do with them and I’m trying to forget the person.
The person I have in mind was my professor, 36 years my senior, never going to happen in this world nor do I expect it to, but for a myriad of reasons I really think that he’s my soulmate, especially since in the past few months following my graduation and relocating to a new city for a new job and beginning a totally new life, the “signs” that ya’ll speak of keep increasing in number as well as intensity. Even if I could and wanted to forget about him, I can’t, as the universe continually reminds me of him. Case in point: my first Sunday in DC I went to the National Cathedral for Mass because it’s within walking distance of my house and there was no reason not to go to a world-famous cathedral on my first Sunday in a new city. This was after about six weeks of traveling and being continually reminded of him for various reasons in every city that I visited, learning that both of our parents are planning to relocate to the same city for retirement, etc…ANYWAY, I get to Mass and it turns out that they’re celebrating Michigan day, which is where he lived for several years while he got his PhD. Every week they pick a different state to pray for, and this one just happened to be Michigan…on top of that, the homily was about the rivalry between U of M and Michigan State (he went to Michigan state and hates U of M as much as any kind person can hate anything) being symbolic of all the religious disaccord in the world, and we prayed for unity among the people of Michigan as well as within our Catholic church and all the world. Then the rest of the homily was about the vastness and miraculousness of the incomprehensible universe and how we can understand about a tenth of a millionth of all that God sees and knows and plans for us…there were countless intersections between science and spirituality in the homily, which was very fitting since he was my neuroscience professor and also it’s obvious that we both believe in God to an extent, probably me more than him, but we lived in New Orleans where everyone respects the supernatural enough to never fuck with it or insinuate for a second that it isn’t real (because so many places are legitimately haunted there that it’s just something you accept even if you don’t really believe it or understand it).
I don’t feel like explaining our relationship (or lack thereof) and it would also be pointless, I also don’t feel like listing and can’t recall some of the signs, but trust me, I totally know what all of ya’ll are talking about, and the fact that the signs get more noticeable the longer that we’re apart and the less that I naturally think of him (which is actually a relief, to not think about him ALL the time anymore, because I was involuntarily obsessed with him for pretty much the past year) just makes me believe that we are soulmates.
Also, because I’m a junior scientist and maybe a future medical doctor, I’ve always kind of taken the stance that life is based in the body and souls may or may not exist…even though I was raised Catholic I never was fully convinced that humans had souls or were worthy of having souls, even though I had less trouble believing in God. But after my relationship with my professor and all the talks we’ve had about God, people, science, and New Orleans, I DEFINITELY believe in souls, and I can now feel my soul because he thrilled it.
(And that reminds me of last Halloween, when pretty much everyone in New Orleans was out partying on an extremely crowded street and I was in the middle of the street like dancing with my friends and taking a hit of weed and ALL OF A SUDDEN I felt him, and I thought I saw him, and I grabbed the sleeve of a man that passed by me even though he was wearing a black robe and a black hood and I couldn’t see any of him…and then a few weeks later when we were drinking at a school-sponsored neuroscience party, I told him that I saw him on Halloween and he said, “I know, I felt someone grab me but I couldn’t turn around and then my friends told me that it was you, how did you know it was me?”) Sorry to be so long and annoying.
I broke up with the man who was definetley one of my soulmates and their was a chance for us to get back together. I kept asking for signs and I got them by the bucket load! Even shooting stars! Yes I kid you not. I use to look up to the heavens at night and ask to see a shooting star;yes a giant meteorite hurtling through space. Again and again I would see them right after I asked and within seconds or a minute at the most. Then I asked to see two shooting stars and I did. But my sceptical brain kept finding reasons for these coincidences! I did not get back together with him and I have always regretted it. I just hope that I get to meet another soulmate lover in this lifetime. And my advice to you is be careful with the signs as the universe is full of yin/yang energy, but if you are getting this many signs. Get in touch and take it from there. goodluck
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Hello Everyone, When I first found this site I was just amazed that others were experiencing and going through what I have been going through for the past two years now. I would like to share my story with you all because reading your comments have really helped me finally decide that I may not be going out of my mind, (the Jury is still out though)
I went out with this guy two years ago and even on the first date I felt there was something ‘dark’ about him. So much so I decided not to go on a second date. The week that followed had me unusually upset about what I had done feeling an unbearable feeling that he was my soul mate (a term I have never used or felt for anyone in my life before) I contacted him and we went on to see each other for a brief 5 weeks. During this time he was unpleasant, insulting, bizarre and muddled in conversation to say the least and was clearly a troubled individual.
Patience never having been my strong point but I found myself being extraordinarily patient with him until one day he stated I must be scared of him by now (I oddly wasn’t) and he must end it which he did in a equally bizarre and almost weird fashion, asking me why I had put up with so much……….I wasn’t sure myself!!
I was fine and went to work the next day by the next day I was in my bed feeling like my world was falling apart (completely out of character for me) I felt totally in love and linked to this guy for no sensible reason. I became so ill I ended up at a psychiatric doctor. Yet not at any point could I explain in my own head the enormity of how I was feeling or why, it didn’t make sense and even though I was clearly very disturbed never felt mentally ill. (although my family thought I was!)
I had weird gang stuff happening outside my home, excess cars circling in my neighbourhood ( I lived in a tiny village with few cars around normally) My mother and myself almost run over by an aggressively driven van to name just a few incidences over 3 months or so. A policeman friend confirmed was in fact NOT my imagination and gangs etc had been found hanging around unusually. and confirmed and listened to a weird phone message made up of sound bites (as I later found out) on my answer machine That along with a myspace page (this guy said to me on the day he was breaking up with me “I want to give you some “myspace” a strange thing to say maybe… duh………… I never even knew at that point what “myspace” was and only found it as I randomly “Googled” my name one day…. and I have a very unusual name) Blogging related to my house contents, personal stuff only known to this guy, clothes I was wearing daily to work etc even a picture of a cushion cover used as a part of the page design. Under the people I wanted to meet section on the page it had a box with “SORAD” flashing I even showed my friend asked her what it meant, , another with “T-Squared“, another with “Be my bitch” and another with “Done and Dusted” so was it coincidence that in the next few days I had a cold call meeting with a guy from a company from T-Squared whose car plate was SORAD (I checked our company signing in log to make sure I hadn’t hallucinated!!) A few days later a cleaning company called for an appointment with me with the name Done and Dusted and the rep said to me in context to a relative normal conversation) “be my bitch” ………….At this point a padded cell was looming………..haha
Laughing aside some of the page contents and pictures were very disturbing and therefore very scary.
I called him at this point and threatened injury on him if he endangered my elderly mother again and blasted him over the “myspace” page he cockily said “prove it” and sadly cos it was personal things to me coupled with inability to copy and save some of the material on it, and with my family who still thought I was imaging it and it was just normal coincidence I had little confidence to report again to the police.
I found the almost surreal synchronicities quite disturbing and scary at times to such a degree I thought I was by now losing the plot. they were coming every day 5 or 6 things in a row, bizarre verbatim stuff, not average conversation that you would normally hear every day for example I told this guy while having a discussion on Manic depression that “sometimes I think I have manic depression” (this was just one of dozens of other verbatim stuff like this) this was said to me by a work colleague in the middle of coffee break in front of people. (It was a totally unusual thing for this particular staff member to say) And with hindsight was more likely to be something this guy from my past may have been regurgitating to a friend in some kind of sick jest ….so did I hear my work colleague say this or was I experiencing a clairaudience/empathic experience?? I honestly thought I was hearing voices by now as this was one of so many along these similar lines. Not only this but every time I would watch television or listen to music they would crop up, driving to work etc etc to such a degree my only respite from it was to sit quietly with no outside stimulus at all. It was both hideous and amazing at the same time, once I said to myself this must be what it’s like to be on acid or something! I did where possible go about confirming with evidence what I was hearing and seeing if for no other reason but to try and evaluate my mental health!!!. Like yourselves I have tried to find reasons, I have spent the last two year s studying all mental illnesses (however nothing seems to fit the bill here very well)
Then religion/spiritualism (this fitted better) then clairvoyance and empathy (which was very close as sometimes I found MYSELF behaving and saying (verbatim) the kind of bizarre stuff this guy said or even did, I often felt like I was turning into him!!)
Then PTSD and harassment tactics and finally but not lastly synchronicity.
There was no question in my mind and at some point this guy (or others) was stalking me along with harassment from some of the local people. However how ever much I can rationalise some it could have been orchestrated (I live in a small town so it was possible) It couldn’t explain it all.
I couldn’t even begin to list all my experiences as it would amount to a list covering every day for the last two years. This is would you believe just a snapshot!!! I do wonder how I am still standing sometimes. Being a very analytical person, personally and in my work environment there is no doubt. I think my unbearable need to work it all out has sent me at time off the rails at times
I will say not all of the synchronicities have directly linked to him, some are random and certainly appear unconnected which at times confused me further!
Was my connection with this guy so strong for some unknown reason I had an empathic experience and absorbed all of his problems hence the feeling I was “becoming him” ?
Did the harassment and thus fear send me into an altered mind state that created PTSD so that I noticed these things because I was traumatised?
Is the web page also just synchronicity like the rest of it?
Am I ill??
Am I living in some kind of parallel universe (quantum theory)?
Am I been giving warning signs from the spirit world that I am in danger from this guy and that’s why they remind me every day so that I’m on my guard? Which I am by the way.
Was he truly my soul mate?
Am I in a spiritual learning zone that I will utilise in the future?
Is it not just one thing but a combination of a few of the above?
I too have had the burning desire to contact this guy as I felt as he would be the only person who could possibly make sense of it and understand, but as the period of time with him and thereafter has been so traumatic and at time terrifying I have resisted.
A further weird thing was on the day this guy ended the relationship he got upset at something I said and then said out allowed “its only normal conversation” something I have since have had to say to myself a hundred times to stay sane! Was he experiencing something at the time what I was then to go on to experience myself?
I moved house and a little ‘Of this world’ harassment at my new home continued for a brief time and then thankfully stopped. The “myspace” page is still active but only every other week or so has something personal to me on it.
I still have the “not possible to be orchestrated” synchronicities every other day with the worst day having still an amazing 5 or 6 in a row.
For the last 9 months I have been in another relationship which has been ‘normal’ and although I feel it may not work out for us do not feel unbearably upset at the concept of it ending as I did before with that guy.
I wish I had answers for you all and I am still sadly waiting for it all to make sense one day, Which of course may never happen which is the most disturbing thought because it would seem so futile to have experienced all this for no reason.
Thanks for allowing me to share this with you and I apologise if it makes a difficult read but to get all of what’s happened to me into some kind of chronological and readable order. Has been harder than I thought
Good luck to you all and if I find the definitive answer I will be sure to post again.
A
I recently (3-4 days back) broke up with someone I really liked and prior to breaking up I was discovering his last names in places I never thought were there.Even topics+subjects we talked about,words,ideas etc kept popping up.Now that I have finally done ,the days seem so much slower and it feels like a lifetime since I had last spoken to him….
The popping up of words (pointing to our conversations )in so many different places within a duration of few hours haven’t stopped though …I don’t know what to do ……..
I just wanted to say thank you soooo much to you Karrals and to the others!!!
We all think it’s just us….when it usually isn’t. I feel so afraid to say something because people will think I’m strange.
I don’t feel crazy about all of the synchronicities I have been experiencing since October 2008 anymore. All of these weird things – it seems to me – have never happened in my life.
I have not been able to find anything to explain much about what is going on with me in the way of books….so it makes it hard to understand. I resolved to just experience it and not think about why or analyze it…not easy to do…I analyze naturally….but it will work out soon…
I will keep you posted.
I accidentally stumbled across this site, and I just couldn’t stop reading! Lol. I’m genuinely happy that you and Mr. Sync are together and still going strong. Your story though makes me think of synchronicities that keep happening to me, and like you, revolve around the same person. I would like to share my story, if you all don’t mind. I swear I’ll try and keep it short. Key word being “try,” lol.
I don’t even know where to begin. Well, when I was about 12 or so, I had dreamt of this woman. In the dream, there was a party and I felt completely outcasted by everyone except her. She and I didn’t talk, we just looked at one another. She smiled warmly at me, and looked at me as if I meant everything to her. I still remember what she was wearing. In the dream, I was my age then. She looked about her age now. Anyway, I woke up, and my first thought was “Who was that woman?” And you know how you have dreams that just won’t leave your mind? This was that kind of dream. I looked out my window at the deck across the alley (since that was where it took place), and I just sat on the edge of my bed thinking of this woman. The weird thing though, is that I missed her terribly. I had no idea who she was, but I missed her. I was almost crying. I just wanted to go back to sleep just to be with her again. In the dream I knew we were connected. I could feel a connection between us.
So, jump forward to when I’m 16, I actually end up meeting her. Upon meeting her, I didn’t immediately go “She’s the woman of my dreams!” haha. But I was drawn to her. I can’t explain it. I just couldn’t keep my eyes off of her. It wasn’t until 2009 that it dawned on me, she was the same person. I was right in the middle of “Papa, can you hear me?” and this thought flew in randomly and I said “She was the woman!” Anyway, she worked at my high school. After I graduated from there, a few months later, I ended up working there, right alongside her. So we grew closer. You could just feel a sort of closeness between us, I can’t explain it. A few months later though, I quit because of some issues I’m not divulging here (nothing to do with this woman though).
It’s been 3 years since I quit, and I feel like these signs or whatever just keep getting stronger. I still dream of her on and off, but I feel like someone is trying to tell me something and these signs keep getting stronger and less subtle.
Let’s just say her name is suddenly very popular all of a sudden. I have a lot of new friends who seem to have friends or family members with this name. One time I was in Petsmart and was talking to this man who was working with the adoption of pets and such. I asked about this one cat and he mentioned that the cat who was in the cage with him had just been adopted earlier that day. The cat’s name? The nickname I had given her. It is NOT a common nickname either. Another time I went to a friend’s bullroast and I looked at the list. Across from my name was her name. Underneath her name was my name again. I asked who they were, and my friend said “Oh, that’s (insert names here). They’re husband and wife.” Her name and mine. On tv shows and in movies, there’s couples or people who are close to one another with both of our names.
Now for the stronger signs. I’ve recently been bumping into her a lot. I always seem to drive past her and one time we saw each other at this stop sign. She beeped, waved and smiled. (Me: *eek!* ^_^)
There was one time though, I was writing in my journal how much I missed her. I was reading what I had wrote, and about a minute after I was done writing, the light bulb in my room just explodes. I was in the dark. And, I’m no expert on how light bulbs blow out, but I was a little freaked out so I told my friend and she was shocked when I told her how the light bulb blew out. See, the light bulb just didn’t go out, it looked like someone had carved a shape into it and then punched it out. It was in the perfect shape of a teardrop. The teardrop piece had fallen onto the bed.
Then, a few days ago I told myself I have to stop this obsession. A day after I said that, this animal (that has the same name as her. People can be named after this animal is what I’m trying to say, lol) decided to make home on my porch. It built a nest and everything and has been living here for the past week or so.
Another thing, I am absolutely OBSESSED with Dragonflies. Well, I was talking to God and Jesus one night. I was asking if I should call her. I never said “send me a Dragonfly”. But I thought it. The next night I was watching a tv show. And this insect starts buzzing around this girl and she’s flipping out, and all of a sudden, in bright yellow letters, the word Dragonfly goes across the screen. I wasn’t sure if that was a sign cause I second guess everything or think I see signs where there are none. So I talked to God and Jesus again and asked if that was my sign. The next day, after class, I was walking to my car. As I’m walking, a Dragonfly flies right in front of my face. But then he kind of hovers there around me,almost like he wants me to follow him. So I did. You’ll never guess what happened next. ANOTHER Dragonfly flies out, and in front of me, the 2 of them start flying around each other, almost like they were playing or flirting. Then they flew off together. The last thing I heard was buzzing in the trees.
I swear I’m almost done by the way. I’m really sorry.
I was getting ready to go to this place to help out with a show. I’m always in this building by the way. It’s like my second home. Before I left, I jingled this Dragonfly wind chime I have on my porch. I thought, maybe if I jingle it, somehow she’ll hear it, or a Dragonfly will let her know I miss her (I know, I sound completely out there, but I believe in mystical stuff like that). So I get to the place I’m going, and I get this picture text from a friend and it’s of a Dragonfly sitting on the wall of the place where I’m headed. That Dragonfly stayed there for about 5 or so days.
One more story, I promise, lol. The other day I was at the hospital with a friend. He was having some issue so I took him to the ER. As we’re in the waiting room, I notice this woman getting into an ambulance (she must have been a a paramedic because she was wearing the same exact uniform as someone else). Anyway, she looked just like the one I miss. Same hair color, style, body type/shape etc…I knew it wasn’t her, but I kept watching her because she looked so much like her. A few second later, this insect flies in front of the window. I’m 99% sure it was a Dragonfly/Damselfly. The body was long like theirs’ are, and the wings were fluttering a mile a minute. So, the Dragonfly flies/hovers at the window for a few seconds like it’s trying to get my attention. I get up cause I’m flipping out and go over to the window. And it stays there a bit longer and then just flies away. Later that day, I’m driving home and I noticed a blue Damselfly holding onto my car antenna.
Might I add, that there are NO bodies of water around these places. There was another time I saw 2 Dragonflies flying in tandem (which is supposed to represent love and maturity) and then one decided to nest in my hair for awhile (that was on a pier, but still)…
And recently I had gone to a birthday party for a friend. While I was there, I met this guy who (honestly was just like me. The male version I guess you could say). Anyway, he was talking about synchronicities and basically everything he believed in, I believe in. It was uncanny. For some reason though, he mentioned his birthday, I don’t know why since we weren’t even on the subject of birthdays, but he says his birthday, and it’s the same month and day as you know who.
Anyway, there’s just way too many things that have been happening. I can’t even jot them all down. Otherwise, this post would be the size of a novel (more so than it already is. ^_^)
I’m just hoping someone can help me or add their 2 cents. She did give me her number and told me to call her anytime, day or night, but that was like 4 years ago. I feel like I’m going crazy or that I’m losing my mind. Logically, this doesn’t make any sense. Emotionally though, I have this gut feeling that I was supposed to meet her or be in her life. I don’t know though. I want to contact her so bad, but I’m so terrified at the same time. Thanks to anyone who reads this. You must have a lot of time on your hands