Jul 07 2008
Update on my whole Synchronicity situation
Well, it’s been months since I’ve written here. A little update on my last entry, which was centered around soulmates and synchronicities … I haven’t actually contacted him, and I’m not planning to right now. I can’t wrap my little head around a decent reason to. It’s weird and it’s awkward, and just the thought of it makes me shiver. I’ve also questioned myself a lot, as this whole story makes me wonder whether I might have some psychological issue that involves me not being able to let go of the past, or something … There must be a medical term for that, I’m sure. I mean, it’s been nearly a decade for Christ’s sake. And why now? Why? Why did it suddenly all come back to me? And why have those coincidences started 8 months ago? I mean, the past years had been perfectly fine and quiet, and it’s not like I even thought of him anymore. I can honestly say that I was totally over it and had completely moved on to something else, and I was perfectly happy with that. So now, what the hell?
Off the top of my head, here’s a quick list of some freaky things that happened to me since my last post:
- In March, all the computers at work strangely set themselves to his birth year. We didn’t notice right away, but customers slowly started complaining that their invoices weren’t dated right. I figured it was just some random glitch, until we got flooded with hundreds of angry messages. And it quickly spread to the entire system. It then spontaneously fixed itself after 2 days, before we could even figure out what had caused it. That year popped up all over the place for two whole days, it was literally insane.
- There’s another guy I used to have a bit of a crush on … I looked him up a few months ago and noticed he was using a fake name online (I suppose to protect his privacy, which I understand) … Well, his fake full name turns out to be my middle name + Mr. Synchronicity’s last name. I gasped when I saw it! I have no idea how he came up with that combination, but in any case, it is disturbing how he just pulled it out of the blue. I never even told him any of this, because we were never that close, but yeah, that fake name gives me chills. Needless to say I clicked away fast! -ugh-
- A couple more weird things happened after that, but it involves too specific details to mention here.
- And last week, the name of his band (which is a quite uncommon word; I even had to look up the meaning lol) was mentioned to me in 3 different situations, the very same day. The first time, I didn’t think much of it. The second time, I thought it was funny. The third time, I was officially creeped out.
I don’t know what to make of it all. I’m sure some people will say I’m reading too much into things. I don’t know, maybe I am. Maybe I should set myself a goal. Like, make up my mind about it, and decide to either get in touch with him soon, or let go now and turn the page for good. It’s obviously bugging me, still, so I’m tempted to go with option 1. I guess I just shouldn’t have any expectations; simply go for it and see where it leads me. If it all turns into a major fiasco, or even nothing at all, then I’ll know for sure that it was just some silly crap in my head. And then I can share it with the hundreds of people who visit this blog (yes, I’m shocked! I didn’t know there were so many of us in this situation lol), and then we can all learn that we’re simply a little sick in the head. Hahah 
I wish somebody on the net had actually documented their own personal case already, and drawn objective conclusions to share with the world. It might spare me from some serious embarrassment. I guess I’ll have to find out for myself. I’ll keep you guys updated!
Hi there. I responded to your last post about this, and you did say you’d like to know how things turned out for me, so here’s the update on my part!
Well, my Mr. Synch was supposed to come visit the new city I’d moved to, but the days were drawing closer to his trip and he still had not called me. I was on tenterhooks, and had a super weird feeling about it. I said to my sister the week before his trip that I simply knew I would see him (but what I didn’t say to her was that I also knew that that would be about the extent of it). Well, of course I did see him. He was visiting my city for work, and I saw him going into the office as I was on the way to mine. Again, the odds of that?? I am sure he saw me too, but he avoided me. I wasn’t as upset as I thought I would be, oddly enough, probably because I had predicted it myself. I have since released the hardcore ardent desire I felt for him and now in my heart just wish him all the best in the world. I know he has issues galore…
Here’s the thing though. The whole experience has finally made me realise that I was responsible for the entire set-up. He and all the coincidences showed up because I started thinking about him very deeply, and then he ultimately did not follow through because I had serious doubts about him (which I think I even expressed on my original post about it).
Since waking up to this realisation, the journey I have been on has been nothing short of incredible. I have learned that I literally “created my own reality” (Google that and you will understand what I mean).
So, although I do not know you, I really click with the emotions you are expressing and therefore will be so presumptious as to even offer a little “advice”. You are not going crazy. Maybe you need to relax about it. It could be that you are subconsciously seeking something with this guy because deep down you know it is right for you. If it’s true then, lo and behold, it is being handed to you, because…it is right for you. (I mean, the bizarre fake name combo, come on, how much more “proof” do you need?) If, like me, you understand on a deeper level that the time is not right for both of you, then it will not happen for you.
Once you realise that a lot of this is coming about because of your own hidden understanding about what *you* need right now, you will feel a lot more at ease about it.
Peace and love to you Karrals! I think your journey might just be beginning…
One more thing. If do decide to Google about “creating your own reality”, ignore the Law of Attraction = $$$ stuff. The person you need to hear from is Seth.
All the best,
Frannie
Oh, hey Frannie! Good to hear from you! I’m sorry it was no Hollywood ending for you (I’m sure we’re all secretly hoping for that lol). It is an interesting perspective though! I’ve been meaning to look up the “creating your own reality” for a few days now, but haven’t had enough spare time yet. I will definitely look into this soon, because I’ve heard a bit about it before, and I remember thinking it sounded like there could be some truth in there.
Thanks again for keeping me updated
Take care!
Karrals
Hi Karrals:
I been reading your blog posts on this? You will see in your search engine terms does he know we’re soulmates? Don’t freak out that’s me. Someone found my blog with that. I wanted to shed some light on this for you because what you’re going through is nothing in comparison to what I’ve gone through. The synchronicity and coincidences about this guy and I are so uncanny that is scary when you don’t understand this. When you are going through this it means that the person does have a major significance in your life and yes, the person is your soulmate. Synchronicity is just bringing that up to your attention. Once you accept that, “Ok this person is my soulmate,” the process stops. I believe that we have a pre-ordained path with a person that we are supposed to be with and the signs is how we find each other, however, the being together is not guaranteed if you are both not ready of enlightened enough to find each other. One of you may involved with someone. There are so many things involved in this. You have my email, contact me if you want to discuss further. I can help you since I’ve gone through all of this already. You are definitely not making this up.
I experienced this a couple of year ago and I can’t believe i just came across this blog and found others have gone thru something similar.
I didn’t know what to call it love at first sight, soulmates and i didn’t even know synchroncities was even used to label it.
My story and very long and there are some things I can not say cause of who the person is.
My story starts back when I was 10 years old. I admirered someone who was a performer from that age up thru my young adults years.. that is how I knew what I saw in the person was not just an obession or that i was just only one more fan. This person deeply touched my heart at that very young age and I didn’t know know why I always had him in my thoughts and heart but I did..and at that young age and thru the years to come, I always had a wierd feeling that one day something would happen with him. I experiened many signs and sychroncities and I always tried to tell myself to ignore them but they were always there.
Well..he was out of the music scene for a while but then came back and I was thrilled to know that and I joined the messageboard for his site. I put a few pictures up and every now and then I checked the site. Well it was August and I had gone away for vacation and when I got back I checked the site and I saw two private message from him.
When I opened them. I cried and prayed to God cause the feeling I got was unexplainable. He wanted for me to email him. So I did. Long story short…. He came to perform in my area not too long after he got in touch with me and he wanted to hang out. I didn’t know what would happen and I figured I would be very nervous and I feared he would be a jerk…. Well,..it was an incredible experience.. and knowing what I felt as a child for him and the signs i would get..made it even more spiritual. And I got signs from the moment he emailed me…and I got signs from the moment we started hanging out. One of the first ones was when i waited for him to come in my car, the song that came on the radio right before he got in, was the ringer on his phone..and his phone rang a couple of minutes after he got in… the specific gum I was craving and wishing I had stopped to get before I picked him up was the gum he immediately offered me when he got in the car…
but more than the signs.. it was the comfort i felt from the moment he was there…and I sensed the same from him. I felt like we knew each other, I recognized his manerisms..we spoke of anything with ease..i read his mind..and would know what he was going to say at times before he said it… I forgot about everything and I felt I wanted to just touch him….and without explaining why and anything, it’s like we knew what we were feeling and no words were necessary.. one of my sweetest memories was when he held my hand on the ride back and I drove with one hand..:) and when held hands for 20mins, without letting go… I believe it was love. ….well after a month I didn’t hear from him and this is where the biggest sign of all happened. after a month of not hearing or seeing him , one day…I got very emotional..and with tears in my eyes I prayed and felt very confused about the whole thing…I didnt know if he was married or not but I did know what he showed me that night felt truly sincere..and I was very sad and I cried…and as I prayed, I asked God for a sign. In that moment, I got a text message from him. after a whole month of not hearing from him..he sends me a message at that moment when I missed him the most. It was incredible…and I felt God was telling me something…
well…the story ends unhappily and it’s been almost 3 years now and I choose to not stay in touch with him. This being after I found out he was married. ANd the way i found out was one of the biggest sychroncities… my college roomate ends up being related to his neighbor in another state.
I don’t know why I went thru all this…but I try not to think of it… I was extremely sad when I realized I could not be with him and it was physicaly and emotionally overwhelming. One of the most comforting things though is that i believe he wrote a song about it, about me..the day i heard the song, I cried and my legs shaked bad. What he says in that song is exactly what I felt and its a song about him wishing he could be with someone.. This song is my comfort..it almost gives me hope..but I still feel I move on….
Thanks for allowing me to share this and I’ll be looking forward to any comments..:)
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