Apr 17 2009
Synchronicities replaced by new coincidences
Hi Everyone,
It’s already 2 months later, and our relationship has been moving steadily. Everything feels positive and comfortable. We are opening up to each other more every day, and our public displays of affection have evolved the same.
Back to the synchronicity topic: all coincidences that seemed to be pointing at him prior to us dating have completely vanished. This will probably sound silly, but soon after they disappeared, I realized I was kind of missing them. Even though we were actually together at that point, which was basically my wish coming true. So I really couldn’t complain. But those little winks from fate were so unusual and quirky, it made life seem a bit more magical, so to speak. I went through this “dead” phase soon after we started dating, where I had no more coincidences whatsoever. Mind you, I was on cloud 9 as far as being with him was concerned! And I still am. So I’m not complaining.
That being said, another type of quirky coincidences has started showing up very recently. They’re coincidences about us both. Strange details we have in common. Similar facts and events we’ve both experienced. Identical tastes about certain things that we never knew we had in common. We have more than once met up for a date, accidentally wearing the exact same colors or pattern. We also noticed we were carrying the exact same handkerchief in our right pocket, made out of the exact same fabric with the exact same print, both being gifts from our parents several years ago. Little details like that, which make us giggle and note “this must be fate”.
So, his name popping up everywhere, as well as the other synchronicities I used to experience, have now been replaced by mutual coincidences that involve us both together, which are much more personal and strengthen our bond in the sweetest way. Life is so strange.
Along come certain fears though. Fears of loss, tragedy, death, accidents. Pretty somber thoughts, I know. But I can’t help but wonder why I would deserve all this, and whether I’ll be given lots more years of it, just like that, or if -as in most movies- happiness is always disturbed by an unfortunate event. An event revealing the actual lesson or challenge to accomplish. Hmm.
Or hey, maybe I just watch too much TV. I don’t know, I’ve had that feeling, or rather, that “fear” that something tragic is creeping around the corner for over a week now. Ah, the human mind. Will it ever just feel safe and content?
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Please please just focus on the good and positive & if negative thoughts creep up, just let them go. Everything will be fine. You may have ups and downs, but that will just be part of growing together in Love.
Love and respect each other and forgive and support each other.
Im very happy that you have found your twin soul. The coincidences are just reinforceing that fact.
All the very best and keep us posted.
Love & Light Always…
Hello,
I am so pleased so hear you are still together and getting stronger as a couple each day.
I know what you mean about ‘missing’ the synchronicity moments however it sounds to me like you are still receiving them just as Gail says reinforcing how right it is you are together.
The feeling something tragic may be round the corner I feel could have to do with the fact you can’t believe your luck type thing but it was not in my opinion ‘luck’ that brought you two together but rather destiny. Can you control your destiny? I am not sure so working on the premise you can’t as the magic of synchronicity would suggest, maybe that is in fact the lesson you were meant to learn and you should accept and trust in what will be will be. Synchronicity brought you this happiness, and whilst you may not recognise why you deserve it you must try to embrace and enjoy your union with this person as the gift it is. Live for the moment and let destiny take care of the rest.
I have had only a small amount of synchronicity moments in relation to my current boyfriend and although I am still confident 3 months on he is not a soul mate for me, I decided to just see how things went. As it turns out he desperately needed someone to confide in and it’s turned out that I am to be that privileged person.
I had become over the last couple of years very guarded and mistrusting of people, something that was completely unnatural and uncomfortable for me. He has helped me trust again, be positive and rekindle the side of me that is open and caring.
We are an odd couple for that there is no doubt but I believe we have been brought together for the reasons I have described and maybe for other things yet to come.
I have faith that this is my destiny for the moment and when or if it needs to change synchronicity will guide me in the right direction. For the moment what will be is meant to be.
Take care for now and start watching the movies with the happy endings…..hard to find nowadays I know!
Anna
can’t wait for the next update.
I’ve met someone who I am very comfortable with and like a lot. Met overseas and for now he is one country and me another. so a little test of our devotion as we wait a few months to be reunited. Im glad in a way even though it is hard being apart, as it is a good indicator of depth of feelings.
Let you know how it goes once we re-connect in a few months.
Hope all is well with you both and love is flourishing.
x
Hi ladies,
Been a long time. But I had to let you know that I moved to his country Barbados and we are together. Not an easy relationship but I have followed it through. My family is from barbados and I was planning on moving here one day..so it worked out fine.
Let me know how you ar doing.
Pleae keep in touch : gail_odle@yahoo.com
This blog seems old, and I don’t know if anyone even still reads it anymore, but on the topic of soulmates, synchronicity, destiny, etc. this is one of the BEST sites out there: http://stevegunn.net/
There’s a lot of fluff posted on the internet, but these articles get straight to the point, and definitely put a lot into perspective for me when I couldn’t figure out a relationship I had with someone.