Jan 08 2009
Quick update about us
Hi everyone! I probably should have kept this site updated a little since my last post, but things got so busy. My synchronicity guy and I are sort of a couple now! lol I say “sort of” because things are progressing slowly. We’ve already been on numerous dates and we really really click! The chemistry is awesome. He also invited me out for New Year’s eve, so we celebrated that together with some of his friends. It was lovely!
It’s no cake walk though. He’s shy and so am I, so we’re kind of struggling our way through these overwhelming feelings right now. Trying to get to the next level so to speak. It really is amazing though. I gotta tell you, I’m so glad I followed my feelings and got back in touch with him. He’s the sweetest, kindest, most gentle man I know. **sigh**
Anyway, just wanted to let you guys know what’s up with me and him! Thanks again for visiting and please do leave comments; I love to read them!
I wish you all the best for 2009!!!
Lots of Love,
K.
THANK YOU!
I was so glad to see someone else besides me going through synchronicity hell and wondering if there was any meaning to any of it. I have blown it off for months. The guy is contacting me again. I won’t bore you with all of my details. I have a blog in which I write all this stuff.
Plus I did the same research as you and could only find the soulmate mumbo jumbo (it is not that I don’t believe it, it is the definitions I find are ridiculous).
I also cannot escape this “knowing feeling” that I am supposed to marry this guy. Even though all logic and normal thoughts would lead me to ask if I need a straight jacket.
But, like you I have had coincidences…mine actually involved running into him monthly, sometimes 3 times a month in different spots. I actively tried to avoid it, cuz I could feel I was going to run into him.
Anyway, I am babbling on…thank you again for your post…there are more of us out here too.
Tracy
So happy things are going well for you Karral. Its made me decide to not rush into any relationship without the pointers that you had!! I have met a soul mate in the past, but there is no chance of us being together again (I don’t think). Just hope another one comes along soon.
Hi everyone,
Sorry not been in touch to thank you and Gail for your comments and advice. I had not realised you had responded so quickly to me as I am still a bit backward with these things and didn’t pick up the responses until December, Christmas was upon us and work has been a bit trying of late so this is the first chance I’ve had to reply!
I know I don’t know you personally but I still feel so happy for you, I am a bit of a romantic at heart so your story so far is restoring my faith in the happy ever after script (of which I hope it is for you and he, if you both want it to be)
As for me I am still getting the somewhat unbelievable synchronicities although they do seem to be giving me respite on most days now with the occasional ‘burst’ of them all in one day and then nothing for a week or so.
However instead of them disturbing me in trying to work out why, I just snigger to myself and say there goes another one!!
What will be will be is my new philosophy and following your reply to me I have decided for my own sake to try and see the positive things that are coming out of this experience of which there are plenty on a personal level.
However disturbing some of it was for me I would not change it as I have learned many things, some of which will protect me now and in the future for that I’m sure.
I have always been very good at reading peoples feelings etc and have successfully used my instinct all my life which has never steered me wrong so far so my bad gut feeling about this man when we first met and his subsequent behaviour will have to in my mind be the correct feeling unless I’m proven otherwise. Why I felt an unbearable connection and love for this man after a fairly short time may remain unanswered and I may just have to accept that, but although the synchronicities almost always are linked to this person, I am focusing on them as the fascinating phenomenon that they are and less of why they are linked to him.
Finally I’m having fun with it!
Both your and Gail’s replies have helped me greatly in the fact they posed a different view point of which I have gained equal strengh from as hopefully this reply shows.
Even though we have never met I get good kind vibes from both of you…and I now trust my instinct again…….thank you.
Best of luck to all and love, peace and happiness in 2009.
Anna…formally known as A!!:)