Hey you guys! I’ve been living on cloud 9 for a few days now. I finally met up with him!!!

Let me first tell you that when I first saw him again, the butterflies were definitely back. We talked and joked a bit, it was extremely nice, casual, simple, easy, and just all around sweet. It flowed with a lot of ease and we ended up having lunch together that same day.

Ok, here comes the freaky part: it turns out we have VERY similar backgrounds and interests. Went to the same schools, picked the same classes, share similar values and opinions about things, same passions, and the timeline of our lives has some funny coincidences (if you can even still call it that at this point).

We had great chemistry throughout the whole conversation (which lasted almost 2 hours). And while you’d think I left with a super excited feeling, I surprisingly left with an extremely peaceful and calm mind. I was also very confident that this was only the beginning, and I just felt sooo at peace. Can’t really explain it, and this feeling came quite unexpected. I would have assumed I’d be feeling hyper instead, but nope! Contentment and peace it was.

My heart still skips a beat when we look at each other in the eyes, it’s like I could literally get lost in them and die lol So strange! It seems to be likewise for him.

I did not mention any of the coincidences to him yet. I might in a more distant future, but not now. It’s still the early stages, and it’s flowing perfectly without synchronicities being mentioned. I did, however, find out that his last relationship apparently broke off around the time my coincidences started on my side, which is pretty damn freaky. Past relationships will probably be discussed further later on, so sooner or later, I will have the exact timeline of it all figured out. It’s just so strange.

Well, when I started writing this blog a year ago, I refused to get into the whole soulmate subject. But I must admit that I’m slowly starting to think I have indeed found my soulmate. And this sounds corny, but my heart feels like it has come home, and that’s the best way I can describe this feeling. It’s all so weird, I’m gonna need a while to digest it all so I can write a more objective post about this later on.

I just got a message from him on my phone, and it sounds like he’s going to ask me out some time next week or so

PS: my gut feeling about the e-mail turned out to be a life saver. While talking to him, a collegue interrupted us for a second to tell him that they had just found out that their professional e-mails hadn’t worked properly for the past month and so messages weren’t coming through. He shrugged and joked it didn’t matter, since he never checks his anyway. Hah! I’m so glad I did not go the e-mail route.

Hey you guys! This is it! We’re back in touch!!!

The friend I was gonna meet up turned out to be sort of weird and depressing, so I won’t bore you with that. Needless to say I did not bump into Mr. Sync then. I started feeling really bummed and I DID NOT want to e-mail him, because remember, e-mails are lame.

So I had two last options: calling or sending him a text message on his mobile. I wasn’t feeling the random call out of the blue thing, it was making me nervous and I didn’t want to catch him off guard like that. So then. I grabbed myself together and texted him. I was so nervous! I walked through my living room back & forth for a whole 10 minutes, already deciding that if he didn’t respond, I’d totally move on and never look back again. But then the phone beeped!!!!

I quickly grabbed it and read the message … He was basically super happy to hear from me and offered to meet up. I was pretty shocked at how positive his response was and almost wanted to slap myself for not having done this sooner. I responded to his text, and then he suddenly called me.

We talked for about 15min I think. I don’t recall for sure because I lost all sense of time lol I didn’t set a date just yet. I told him I’d call him back and let him know. I just didn’t want to be that easy girl, because easy = not attractive. So I’ll let it simmer for a few days and then call him back lol

He was soooo warm and friendly on the phone, I can’t believe how easy this was. I’d love to meet up with him next week. I think he should be available, so yay!

I’ll definitely keep you guys posted. Someone already warned me that the butterflies may all die the second I see him, because apparently it can happen to people when they haven’t seen each other in so many years. So, I decided to approach this whole thing with an open mind and a “we shall see” attitude. I still got the flutters though, I can’t wait )